Attachment style · 12 questions · free
Left on read. What does your mind do next?
Twelve quick statements about one relationship. See where you sit on two dials: how easy closeness feels, and how much reassurance you need.
No account needed. Pause any time.
The two dials
Two dials.
No boxes.
Across: how easy closeness feels. Up: how much reassurance you need. Drag the dot and watch these two react.
ToyThis is a toy. Your real spot comes from your answers.
Right in the middle: some days you lean in, some days you need a sign.
Quick fire
Sound familiar?
Three moments, three taps. Nothing here is scored or saved.
You sent a message an hour ago. Seen. No reply.
This is one of the 12 things the test asks about.
On the list: unanswered messages
Not scored. Not stored.
They said “we’re okay.” Part of you wants to ask one more time.
This is one of the 12 things the test asks about.
On the list: asking again
Not scored. Not stored.
They say they need a little space tonight.
This is one of the 12 things the test asks about.
On the list: needing space
Not scored. Not stored.
What you get
Your result,
minus the label.
Two scores out of 5, read separately. A plain explanation, and the answers behind them.
- Two dials, each out of 5
- Every answer, revisitable
- A card you can share
In this relationship, closeness feels fairly easy, and a quiet day doesn’t usually unsettle you. Read each dial on its own.
The honest part
What it is.
What it isn’t.
An original reflection, not a validated attachment instrument. Read the two dimensions separately; they do not assign a fixed attachment type or predict compatibility.
Not a label
No type, no box. Two scores you read side by side, and they can shift.
Not a compatibility test
It won’t tell you whether you and someone are a match.
One relationship at a time
Answer for one current close relationship. Someone else might bring out different answers.
Where the questions come from
Twelve original TPP relationship-reflection prompts. Not the ECR, ECR-R or ECR-RS.
Can I pause or use a different device?
Your answers save as you confirm them. Guest progress stays in this browser. Signed-in attempts can sync to your account; the test shows whether saving succeeds.
Afterwards
Take it into
a conversation.
Tap a question to copy it. Send it to yourself, or to them.
Ready when
you are.
12 statements · 5-point scale · Free · No account needed